nasihat kakak

Tadi masa blogwalking, I found my juniors blog. And as expected, most of their blog post are fulled with their love story. Weh baru form 4 kot. Okay, I know it is their right to be in love or being loved whatsoever. Tapi kan. Macam show off sangat yang korang ni bercintan-cintun. Siap jealous kalau ada kawan diorang dating. I know darah muda. Tapi adik-adikku sekalian, percayalah, usually it won't last long. Paling kuat tahan pun setahun lepas korang habis SPM. Maybe korang kata takkanlah. Aha, things get different my dear when you enter university or when you meet other colonies from different side of the world. Sometimes, korang break pun bukan sebab ada orang ke-100 pun, the environment make the people change. I've seen so many cases. Zaman korang sekolah tu, enjoylah puas-puas, nak bercinta boleh, tapi jangan sibuk 24-7 dok berkepit je memanjang. 

Balik asrama, sama-sama. Balik prep, sama-sama. Pakai baju prep sama-sama. Time prep malam, sama-sama. Balik bilik, malam tu gayut/mesej lagi. Siap belanja nasi lemak lagi kan. Tak bosan eh. Aha, don't worry, aku pun pernah rasa juga. Tapi, you have to remember, semua benda ada limit. Give yourself a privacy. Percayalah, kalau korang asyik duk nak bersama-sama sangat, nanti lepas habis sekolah, mesti menyesal sebab tak spend time dengan kawan-kawan like betul-betul spend time where we don't talk about your boyfriend and how they treat you but you just sit, giggle everything about girls stuff. I don't have any regret. :D

I know having a boyfriend can motivate you. Mesti kita nak lumba dengan dia betul tak. Tak dapat challenge dia, at least, jadi among of the group pun jadilah kan. Tapi kena ingat, sayang boyfriend jangan lebih dari sayang ALLAH dengan parents kita. Sayang berpada-pada dengan teman tapi mesra awak yang belum tentu lagi jadi suami awak. :)